".... the love in Islam. No words can define it...

[maruf]

" This is the love in Islam. No words can define it. It's something so enigmatic, that only Allah (swt) could design it and comprehends. Wonder of wonders. Beyond man's conception. And only in Allah, can love find true perfection. For love is enduring and patient and kind. It judges all things with the heart, not the mind. And love can transform the most commonplace into beauty and splendor and sweetness and grace. For love is unselfish, giving more than it takes, being unconditional and unhampered by environment. Love never forsakes, it's faithful and trusting, truthful. It is guileless and honest and never deceiving. Love is Allah's Divine Gift. "









BISM ALLAH AL-RAHMAN AL-RAHIM

HUBB

Love in Islam



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What is love and how does one achieve it?

Love is something so complex that no words can define it. There are many meanings and forms and types of "love". The Glorious Qur'an mentions the word 'love' in many verses. Does the love for others mean kindness and affection having moral nobility and human respect, and not a means of satisfying carnal desires and material whims? Is true love for others as that affection which is free on motivation, pollution of thought, selfishness, and material interests? Is love conformant with the loftiness of spirit, the purity of mind, and intensity different for human beings than it is for the remainder of the animal kingdom? Dose love remove the quality of animalism and savagery from an individual, give assurance and security, create an environment of peace and joy, and make life attractive and pleasant?

In Islam, love is first for Allah (swt), occupying the heart and conscience in such a way that it overwhelms concealed everything else. It is reported,"I never saw a thing but I saw Allah before it, after it, and along with it". The Glorious Qur'an says,"The believers are stauncher in (their) love for Allah." 2:165

Second, the faithful harbor of love for The Holy Prophet Muhammad (s). This love in manifested by an intense desire to follow and imitate the Prophet (s). The Glorious Qur'an says,"Say (O' Muhammad!) If ye do love Allah, then follow me, Allah will love you and forgive you your sins; Verily, Allah is Forgiving, Merciful." 3:31

Third, Islam advocates brotherly love in faith. It is reported,"Human beings can live in blessing and kindness so long as they love each other, show trust-worthiness, and behave according to truth and fairness." This brotherly love in faith also established good relations in society when the basis for sincerity and affection, and heartfelt love is simple that of sharing Islam. It is reported that a mean was sitting beside the Prophet Muhammad (s), and his friend passed by. This man told Prophet Muhammad (s),"I love that man for the sake of Allah (swt)." Prophet Muhammad (s) asked him if he had told his friend that, and the man answered in the negative. The man stood up, stopped his friend, and told him, "I love you for the sake of Allah (swt)" and his friend replied,"I love you the way you love for His sake." It is reported,"Allah (swt) loves that His servant salute one another clearly and openly."

This is the love in Islam. No words can define it. It's something so enigmatic, that only Allah (swt) could design it and comprehends. Wonder of wonders. Beyond man's conception. And only in Allah, can love find true perfection. For love is enduring and patient and kind. It judges all things with the heart, not the mind. And love can transform the most commonplace into beauty and splendor and sweetness and grace. For love is unselfish, giving more than it takes, being unconditional and unhampered by environment. Love never forsakes, it's faithful and trusting, truthful. It is guileless and honest and never deceiving. Love is Allah's Divine Gift.

On the other hand, there is the love of the world. Love of the world leads the stage where a person man/woman does not see anything but the world before it, after it, and along with it. Every thought and action is for some worldly gain. Such a person cannot devote himself/herself to pious deeds for more than a few days. It is reported,"This world is like sea water. The more one drinks of it, the more one gets thirsty."

If this self-love is reinforced, it becomes more intense, exceeds the limit of expediency, and consequently turns into egoism and selfishness, producing great evil, polluting the person with many vices leading to the violation of the rights of others, and promoting anti-human deeds. The only love between a man and a woman that achieves fruition is that between a husband and a wife. The love and compassion between a husband and a wife is a gift from Allah (swt), and a loving wife finds happiness in obeying her husband.

In our world, there can be no value in anything that does not earn Allah's good pleasure. Therefore, it is incumbent upon us to confine our efforts to seeking the next world, for this world has no value to us.

We ask the Mighty Lord to purify our hearts, and to brighten us with faith. May He turn our mind more towards seeking His pleasure and fill our hearts with His love, His fear, and belief in Him. May He help us according to the teachings of His book, Ameen.

May Allah (swt) reward all of you. Please remember me in your Dua'as regularly. Jazakum Allah Khairan.

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Narrated 'Aisha

The Prophet was asked, "What deeds are loved most by Allah?" He said, "The most regular constant deeds even though they may be few." He added, 'Don't take upon yourselves, except the deeds which are within your ability."



Narrated Anas

Allah's Apostle said, "Whoever possesses the (following) three qualities will have the sweetness of faith (1): The one to whom Allah and His Apostle becomes dearer than anything else; (2) Who loves a person and he loves him only for Allah's Sake; (3) who hates to revertto atheism (disbelief) as he hates to be thrown into the Fire."




Narrated Anas bin Malik

Apostle." The Prophet said, "You will be with the one whom you love."


Narrated Anas bin Malik

I heard Allah's Apostle saying, "Allah said, 'If I deprive my slave ofhis two beloved things (i.e., his eyes) and he remains patient, I willlet him enter Paradise in compensation for them.'"


Narrated Anas bin Malik

Once the Prophet saw some women and children coming from a wedding party. He got up energetically and happily and said, "By Allah! You (i.e., the Ansar) are the most beloved of all people to me."

[anonymous]

i think ure right when u say that a person cannot devote himself or herself to pious deeds if he/she is in love. this is the problem that i am facing. but i dont know what to do. help me please. i want to get out of this mess.!

[buksh26]

salaams,

anonymous wrote:
i think ure right when u say that a person cannot devote himself or herself to pious deeds if he/she is in love. this is the problem that i am facing. but i dont know what to do. help me please. i want to get out of this mess.!

First of all the subject defines love and how to achieve it. Now when you say; "a person cannot devote himself or herself to pious deeds if he/she is in love", what exactly do you mean?

Are you implying that you like someone and thats preventing you to perform your Islamic obligations?
If thats the case then the first thing you should look at doing is to seek the purpose of this life ie what's your purpose of this life? What came before this life and what comes after this life? ............Obvioulsy the answer is Allah(swt); the lord of the universe.

If Allah(swt) created you then he(swt) will layout the manner which you should be leading your life. And by following Allah's(swt) commandments we all want to enter jannah, insha'Allah, however in Hadith Qudsi Rasool(saw) related that there is a greater objective then to enter jannah and that is Ridwan-ul-Allah(swt) ie attaining pleasure of Allah(swt).

So Allah(swt) created us and he(swt) defines how to lead life and our live is temporary compare to after-life. If we start to seek pleasure in things other than what Allah(swt) defined then we will only get those things but we'll lose on achieving the real objectives in life; which is to attain the pleasure of Allah(swt) by following the example of our beloved prophet(saw).

If our criteria/perpective of life is incorrect then our actions will turn out to be incorrect and if our criteria/perpective of life is correct then our actions will be correct. Ofcourse as human beings we do make mistakes but the trick is to learn from those mistakes and repent to Allah(swt) and try your best not to repeat the mistakes of the past.

And no matter how deep trouble you find yourself in, never think that you can't come back to siratal-mustakeem(the right path).

May Allah(swt) give us hidaya(guidance) to us all.....ameen.

br haroon